From:
millienium bear <millienium_bear@yahoo.com.sg>
Reply-To:
millienium_bear@yahoo.com.sg
To:
Victor Keng <vick3394@hotmail.com>, ney1578@pacific.net.sg
Subject:
Re: Plans for Deaf mums
Date:
Mon, 26 May 2003 14:32:58 +0800 (CST)
Victor
Yes,
to meet their needs. IMHO, I agree with the priority and for other mothers, I
dunno. I believe that they especially working mums are yearning to taker a
break from hard day at work n family commitments, hoping to leave the kids
someone else’s care. It is their top priority. BUT they can’t leave kids alone
in someone else’s care ( specially for the in-laws, they might pass unpleasant remarks
about working mum and might not understand them due to generation, I m sure u
know what I mean). To avoid these older generations thinking, working mums have
no choice to tag kids along where they want to go… maybe to mums, kids might
use their energy much, chat might not satisfied. Jenny, agree with my point?
So,
it is best to plan both child and mum activities at the same time. For child
activities, we can offer kids toys, books, and watch educational vcds (if there
is a vcd player inside DIC) – sign language and using voice must be included
pls while volunteers can take care of kids for them.
For
mum activites, should be simple planning like tea party to interact with one
another. They are welcome to involve in kids activities if they feel wanting
to.
For
myself, meeting up like friends can wait and can be a few times once a year as
I have my mum to share my frustration – mum is just a close friend, good enough
for me. I mainly concern for my kids as my son is showing signs of delayed
developments. I expect them to sign, given my standard of communication. I
believe that it is less friction for us to have a serious talk if they get into
trouble outside and allow us to feel a stronger bond despite my HI situation.
Also, must instill the feeling of pride having HI parents in the kids when
meeting their own friends. For that reason, I often see my relative’s kids
depending on other people beside HI parents to solve their problems and tend to
be more closer to other people more. Not only that, I have heard from my mum’s
friends about the similar cases. Simple words from them is described that they
are unimportant, helpless, feel “stupid” …. To make the things worse, kids
don’t want parents to be involved in any school events, future marriage discussions.
April
Victor
Keng <vick3394@hotmail.com>
wrote: Dear April,
I
have been thinking seriously about your offer.
Do
you have any ideas how we should tackle the issue?
I
mean....I would ask myself....
what
is the reason for gathering Deaf mums?
Is
it because of meeting their needs?
What
are their needs?
I
see it in 3 broad categories:
(a)
Children's needs
(b)
Mother's needs
(c)
Family needs
Do
you agree that they are in the correct priority?
If
we plan something......are we planning for mother or for their children
first?
We
need more feedback....because some mothers just want a break....to be
with
their friends....
Then
we should plan for the mothers.....
For
you....you seem to be concerned about your children...
What
do you think?
Victor
Forum on Deaf Needs and Brain Storming 17/5/2003
Obviously last Saturday, our slogan
"Are you Left Behind"....it touched some of them and they identify
with the Slogan.
But we cannot count the number of
members.
This is because they still remember
the past and MHI cannot give them any benefits.
Can we instead count the number of
Training sessions we do.
Then we gather those who are willing
to be trainers.
These trainers will do like what we
do....they understand and share our vision and mission.
They can then be Managers.
From the managers, we can only select
1 or 2 leaders who will have foresight and be able to strategise our next step.
Again.....we want to avoid too many
activities even though this attracts many people but we don't give them
ownership.
For our Phase 1, we concentrate on
Deaf.
How many training sessions can we
hold?
I do feel alittle tired just for 1
session......this is because I must say things that will encourage them to
speak their feelings.
But listening to them, we can measure
how we can help them.
Will our target for managers be 5 by
the end of this year?
Maybe we get 1 leader besides
us? Actually I am very keen for Jasmine
to be running beside us.
But I need to convince her first.
I believe that leaders or managers,
we want to adopt a culture of listening to the needs of others. Slow to give
solutions, but excite the people to find solutions for their needs. That means
we empower them. Teach them to think and
give them the power to be able to change their surroundings.
By using our leadership skills, we
will motivate them and encourage like minded people to gather around them to
work out the difficulties.
Then we make use of the facilities of
COSC to make their solutions work. Use the money of MHI to make their dreams a
reality.....
Very different from how we worked
last time.
Implementing a strategy
Gather group of people who may be
interested in rebuilding MHI ------ brain storm for needs to be met
------singled out the priority
Training -----planning ----- executing.
Communication
Discussion on Friday 25 April 2003
**We realise that there are difficulties
for us as Outreach Managers to run the programs because the expectations of our
Deaf friends are different from the expectations of the Committee as well as
LCEC.
For example, our Deaf friends may only be
interested to stay on in MHI only when their needs are met. We took Meiqi for
example. She has a child and she can only come to serve in MHI when her needs
of having somebody take care of her child are met. On the other hand, Committee has limited
resources to help us meet that need.
Even the deployment of the full time worker to meet the needs of a small
group of Deaf friends can be difficult because there are bigger issues to be
met by the full time worker.
**We discussed with Evelyn about putting the full time worker for the
Outreach Department for the following reasons:
1) Outreach
Department has limited resources especially when we are basically volunteers
and have limited time
2) We need some body
to walk the streets and meet the needs of our friends when we are not
available.
3) We need some body
to do the necessary RESEARCH to find out more so that we can plan Programs and
Projects in order to fulfil the Aim of Outreach Department.
**Evelyn states that it is difficult because :
a) Target groups are
very small
b) Outreach
Department cannot be very clear of our aims in deploying the full time worker
c) We should not
micro manage
d) Full time is to
make sure Tuition, counselling and case work are to be carried out.
**We discussed that we have to be careful because there are those who
wants to return to MHI for ulterior motive. We know that some of them are
participating in pyramid selling for a company. They need the contacts. We
agree that we will not stop them, but it is our responsibility to tell others
that buying anything in MHI has got nothing to do with MHI. Their desire to
purchase any items from their friends are purely their own intentions. We
cannot be held responsible for any unfavourable outcomes.
** We discussed about those who
suddenly show their keenness to join MHI. We decided that our first move would
be to inform them about the new vision and how it is different from the old
MHI. Then we need to organise the
activities so that we can select for ourselves which category of people they
belong. They can be either leaders, managers, volunteers or just
participants. Then we will organise
training sessions for them.
**We discuss how we should focus in the target groups for Projects. A
table was drawn on the various target groups with Deaf, Hearing and HH. There are many groups. But we think by
picking up the target groups, getting them into MHI and then training them,
they can be placed in positions which they can take care of other target groups
for us. In this way, we can meet the needs of the life cycle.
Aim
Outreach Department of MHI aims to
motivate its members and allow them to maximize their potential in the areas
they are capable. We will be family
oriented so that we can become One Community.
We aim to fulfil the Vision of MHI with all our members.
Strategy
·
Develop friendships }
Create dynamic
- Motivate
them to stay – ownership }
and unique Community
- Develop
personal character and qualities }
Transform lives
- Develop
Outreach Department to meet the needs of members in every aspect of their
life cycle. }
Touch lives for Christ
Expectations
·
Hard of hearing -- Introduce and gain acceptance.
Motivate them to join our Bilingual Culture
- Deaf -- Motivate
them to be dynamic; to maximise their ability and become contributing to
the MHI Community
- Hearing -- Motivate them to work with Deaf.
Friendship to develop to become a member of a unique church with the
above.
Phases
Phase I (1st Year)
Targetting the Deaf
-
1) Activities to attract them back to MHI
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2) Promote friendship amongst the Deaf
-
3) Motivate them to stay
-
4) Select leaders and managers. Those who are not
willing to serve to continue to participate in activities or programs
-
5) Tell them about Phase II
Phase II (2nd Year)
Targetting the Hearing
-
1) Training in Sign Language
-
2) Promote friendship with the Deaf
-
3) Motivate them to work with the Deaf. Not to look
down on Deaf and not to see Deaf as only people who are helped
-
4) Motivate them to join MHI Church; a church and
community of Deaf and Hearing
-
5) Tell them about Phase III
Phase III (3rd Year)
Targetting the Hard of Hearing
-
1) Introduce into the Community of Deaf and Hearing
-
2) Motivate them to adopt a bilingual Culture
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3) Learn Sign language
-
4) Become the Unique Church of Deaf, Hearing and
Hard of Hearing
Outreach dept
We already agreed that plans could be subdivided into:
1. Long term plans
2. Medium term plans
3. Short term plans
In order to obtain results and study whether the activities do benefit
our ministry as well as members and outsiders.
The target market needs to be analysed. This target market primarily
consists of individual needs who or will be
-
Light user
-
Moderate user
-
Heavy user
Of the needs to be met.
It is much difficult to define.
Vision statement is divided into two sections
a) Internal – who
are we?
Who do we
do?
b) External – what
is being satisfied?
Who is
being satisfied?
How is
the need being satisfied?
We may have to break down into four phases.
-
Phase one ( the beginning)
- Phase two (growth)
-
Phase three ( maturity)
-
Phase four ( the end or a new beginning )
To complete the vision…
We roughly talked about:
·
Corporate plans
We have new MHI vision so we are modifying our ideal outreach concept
to suit in the MHI vision indirectly.
Not only that, we are thinking of ways to unite people together into
one community.
First thing, we target on
Deaf, as it is a high majority where we need to bring back.
How? Continue to organise more informal gatherings by communicating
effectively with them until they felt secure with the vision.
Objective: Promoting family oriented in MHI
When? It will be held on every three months where we can eat together.
The budget will be always be variable from twenty to twenty five dollars.
What style of dinner should be appropriate? Buffet should be worth
spent.
I will start the first gathering in late may. Tentative place is at
Marina Square - Thai food buffet.
Target number of people is at least 20 people.
What we need is to do:
To ask our members to update their particulars in the record. It is
much easier to send e invitations than sms. Sms is a purpose to remind them of
incoming activities. Some people do not have email; we can send them by post.
Easier to maintain
We have to tell what we have for this year as introduction.
What does the plan benefit us- outreach managers?
This plan produces a positive encouragement in multiplation of numbers
of people.
We encourage every member to bring one friend to join for every
gathering.
First gathering in may – 20
Second gathering in august – 40
Third gathering in Nov – 80
What tool of management is used?
Continuous Motivation
The strongest factor in motivation is growth opportunities. This
provides all of us with the chance to develop and to succeed. It allows them to
reach the potential that is within them.
People will stay where there is an opportunity for growth. The benefit
of growth motivation is that people will be retained and be able to perform at
a higher level of skill. But it also requires a long term orientation and
commitment from us. We have to create those opportunities for growth and allow
people to stay and develop the vision.
- Second thing, we are to
encourage hearings to be active in full participation in terms of befriending.
Push them to be more daring in approaching.
Hearings need to be able in flexibility. They need to walk the talk as
we do.
How? We make them involved in our programs.
Lets say second gathering, we hope to get 40 people. We have to make
every hearing to sit together with a group of Deaf dinning in one table.
One table consists of 10 persons
-
9 Deaf
-
1 hearing
I will arrange the ongoing support training for new comers like
befrienders.
Determine the values of training?
- Third thing, as for hard
of hearings we are to promote the bilingual culture where hard of hearings can
see the strong interaction of hearings and Deaf in communication and
It is much difficult to find hard of hearings in street. If available,
it is a really unpleasant to make a conversation therefore hard of hearings do
have their own restriction in making friends with.
Victor brought up the idea about reaching out to Methodist schools
where got hard of hearings. We can promote free tuition, self-development
assessments to them. Not only that, we do have opportunities for them to make
friends with hearings as well as Deaf. They are allowed to display their
talents and maximise their potential. We do provide training.
To have sign language camp for hard of hearings kids to enjoy in fun
learning environment.
Jane will make special arrangements with us if we want her to help out.
Our pastor needs to liase with principals for future automation where
hard of hearings could be referred to us through Hannah.
We support welfare and counselling sessions with them in their well
being concerns.
Hope to see the increase in hard of hearings in every activity. Maybe
the fifth or sixth gathering.
·
Budgetary plans
Total proposed budget is $18 000. Emergency for last min purposes of
budget is two thousands dollars.
Sars will affect the people s donation. We have to think of recycling
and find ways to reuse old things.
·
Operational plans
Sars is a big problem. We have to wait and observe how the sars affect
the life in secondary schools. If failed, we may have to withdraw the ASC from
our program list.
If fully affected, we have to urge a crisis meeting with committee
members.
If a situation improves, I would like to suggest few things to be added
in the facilities of ASC.
-
Besides LAN games, self-educational assessments
(CD-ROM) should be added in PC to allow the students to practise and revise
their work.
-
Not only that, self-development assessments (CD-ROM)
are needed to added so that to build one s character. E.g. leadership , etc
-
General Quiz to keep them entertained in testing
their knowledge if they are bored with games. Where to find these quiz? Go to
the website www.knowledgenet.com.sg where got national education and
social studies. Then saves the quiz in the floppy disk and install it in all
PC.
-
Inform students that they can do projects in centre.
- “Just once a month” workshop – team
building, how to do well in presentations and etc.
How do we determine how we can make without information from
situations?
What happens if the government or Bishop condemns part or all of our
location?
What happens if part or all of our activities or MHI centre is
destroyed due to a natural or man-made disaster?
·
Marketing plans
Problems:
Biggest problem is financial constraints where Deaf face. Many Deaf
prefer to have heavy usage of benefits.
Lifecycle benefits will help to achieve the goal of winning people?
Yes but it is intensive in terms of resources.
How are we going to change people s mindset?
MYTH: What are MHI benefits for people? They are known as free food and
free subsidies of activities.
MYTH: What are people benefits for MHI? Cheap labour and be mocked by.
We are to invent the cultural integration style to be used in every
activity. Where do we get time to emerge the two cultures into one? Three
targets (hearings, hard of hearings and Deaf) at a time
Is our training on cultural integration effective to hearings?
Research on cultural integration is needed so a special task force has
to be made. Special task force members will help us to draw the three targets
closer to be one.
What are the advantages of outreach department compared to Touch and
Sadeaf?
To become a community where all come to be equal regards of what they
are.
What are the disadvantages of outreach department compared to Touch and
Sadeaf?
Job placements
What are our MHI obligations to promoting people s needs?
Share the joy and love with them through God.
·
Production plans
Old computers need to be repaired.
Need to arrange a target schedule of things to be done.
When to open and close?
How long they can be maintained in the fast changing pace?
·
Manpower plans
Training for befrienders – once every six months
How many befrienders to be in maximum?
Otherwise they will be on float at all times.
Befriender’s commitments?
What are our obligations as a manager?
What are the members’ obligations?
What are the outsiders’ obligations?
Have we made a comprehensive list of all the obligations and
responsibilities we are required to perform?
Determine the values of service?
What continuous value do we provide the members after they have been in
existence for a period of three to four years?
What can member expect when he or she joins?
For beginning year, what is the definition of outreach?
Characteristics?
Applications – whom we target?
How to recognise person whether he or she is a member?
I suggest we need to send an Acceptance and notification / revocation
with validity period letter to the interested parties.
Preliminary enquiry may be raised, given a month between invitation to
tender membership. The invited parties are in a position to comply the
regulations and obligations when necessary.
Is the initial term long enough for us to finish all the targets?
Forecasting plans – must plan permanent activities for
future
Strategy:
Content: Realistic – represent a reasonable estimate of what the needs
of market take.
Comprehensive -
assessments of future levels of all the needs
Comprehensible –
must be able to understand the plan
Appropriate –
manpower reliable
-
The retirement benefits are benefits where we can
get for our children as well as ourselves in reducing the unpredicted financial
constraints and lessening our worries.
Example: Having a
childcare centre where we can put our kids to be looked after as well as to let
our kids grow in the cultural integrated environment where we desire our
ministry to be.
-
employment
Welfare
High percentage of Deaf jobless
·
car wash at fort canning car park
·
Once a month at third place café or any lobang of
third place event, they can sell food and drinks but the food must be creative.
·
Set up deaf event management group to scout for any
deals that needs us to organise for people. Let s say dancing for weddings and
etc
Lin Shifeng
17th April 2003
Aim:
·
Train people to become leaders and managers for next
batch.
·
Maximize their potential in whatever areas of their
gifts eg logistics, befriending, organising, counselling, etc within their
freedom of learning and using.
·
Share our Outreach Department vision to help them
understand MHI vision and build a Retirement Home for everybody where they can
enjoy the retirement benefits.
·
Encourage team work
Method:
·
Continue with activities organised by COSC or
outside COSC. These activities just gather the people, but may not have any
long term aim
·
Organise Programs for them. Programs are a series of
activities which will fulfil MHI vision and Outreach Aim
·
Think in terms of projects which will benefit the
targeted groups (not individuals) to fulfil the Outreach Department Aim
Benefits:
·
We will avoid selling Outreach Department by
rewarding people with status benefits (i.e. promotion).
·
We try not to promise them anything except we may
have to offer different forms of benefits which our members are used to (e.g.
member looking for a job, but instead of finding a job, we help them build a
business)
·
instead we will encourage people to maximise their
potential by training them (either in MHI or other organisation)
·
Training increases benefits, which cannot be counted
or seen. It benefits the character and the person as a whole.
·
Benefits can be counted as the satisfaction to be in
an organisation where everybody has their own area of specialisation and the
organisation grows (dynamic) because of that.
We discussed expectations:
1) Members have different expectations. E.g. what is the meaning of no
future? Expectations for some of members may be just to have a simple job from
Monday to Friday, have friends to chat with on Saturday and Sunday. To be able
to hang out.
2) Some enthusiastic members may not be leaders, but they can be
managers. Leaders are expected to bring the team together and think of long term
plans and visions. Managers help run programs.
"Volunteers" as we are finding out have different
expectations. Some are "ad hoc" they don't plan, they don't organise,
they just want to "help" during the activities and then leave. Some
are keen to "help" on programs eg tuition (more regular, but not plan
or organise)
3) Hearing expectations and Deaf and HH expectations are maybe
different.
4) With SARS, the needs of all are changed. It may be short term goals
because no body is certain about long term.
We discussed other things:
1) Need to get ex MHI to come back.
2) Tell them about new Vision and direction of Outreach Department
3) Start training and motivating those who are willing to serve as
leaders, managers, volunteers, etc.
4) Change mindsets and expectations
5) Ex MHI needs may have change and we need to interview them about
their changing needs.
_____________________________________________
This was not really discussed:
·
If we sell Outreach Department to attract people to
create their retirement home, it may not be suitable for the younger ones.
To avoid that, we sell with a smile and positive words. Positive words
build bridges.
·
I feel that we need to hold the old thinking, "
We intend to make MHI our Second Home" A much easier idea to accept for
the younger ones.
_____________________________________________
Evelyn's style of management:
- Flexibility
- Gives general direction for the Department to work
- Draws restriction and limitations
- Do not reward with tangible things e.g. promotion; rather the rewards
is to see the organisation grow
- Encourages training and team participation
- Does not beg for the best person to be in the department, prefers
team players rather than the most abled person to do the job
- Family oriented
- Recognise that the Committee works better in an organisation which is
respected by others outside; emphasise publicity
- Prayer oriented
- Consultative style of management
________________________________________
Victor Keng
15th April 2003
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